Sexual assault and threats in Carbondale

Last week on February 8, I invited someone to go see "Creation" over at Morris Library with me. We went, watched the movie and had fun. Before I had met this guy and I had helped this guy go to COLA, I thought I would see him again, I figured I would because we have a class at the same time in the same area. It just so happened that a few days later we saw each other again in the computer lab where he asked if I had a Facebook and told me to give him my e-mail. Usually this isn't a big deal. Actually it turns out that we were taking the same kung fu class, it was pure coincidence. I thought neat, I think this guy is cool, he's nice and funny. We chatted online on Facebook, and he displayed homophobia, I never really realized I was a sexual object or an "opportunity" until he said " I guess that ruins my chances" after I told him I'm a lesbian. He continued to be condescending. I asked him, he agreed he was being "condescending", he apologized. I said ok. I asked him are we still on for tonight, he said sure, and we met up. I understand he has some aggression issues considering he was telling me so, but I guess he, started "playfully" punching me and I said ok, I'm gonna punch back, I punched back, "kiddingly". I got tired of it, "could you stop?" I asked. He imitated one last time than he finished. I was getting upset. He was really annoying and un-friendly. Very aggressive and not to mention, hostile. When the movie finished we left, he said he was going home and I went to go get a cup of coffee. While I'm waiting in line, he comes around the coffeeshop and fakes a punch me in the stomache, says "Bad reflexes", and I say "I'm pretty sure you weren't going to punch me." and he says "Don't be so sure of that", I ask "are you threatening me", he says " Yeah". Out of the corner or my eye, I noticed the woman standing in front of me, slightly turn around, simultaneously I began to look around and I felt so silent when I wanted to scream, "Help". I didn't though. He says "I'm just trying to help." I don't think that's help.
Let's skip forward to February 12 and another event. I was at my friends birthday party and I was dancing with my girlfriend. We were having a blast! It was such a great party. My girlfriend and I had made our way to a more quiet room, where there was less people. We were making out, enjoying each other's pleasure, expressing our sexuality, it's Valentines weekend most couples do. We just do it because we like to. So we were minding our own business when this hand creeps up along my back and suddenly he feels up my boob, meanwhile saying "oh yeeaaah... ALRIGHT!" I don't know this man. He has a beer filled cup in his, I doubt it was soda when his girlfriend ended up screaming "he's drunk!". Anyways, so I turn around and give a blatant command. DONT YOU EVER FUCKING TOUCH ME AGAIN. I made a mistake. I had a chance to hit him. I made a mistake, and didn't. He replies, "Oh it was just a joke, but have a goodnight!". I was distressed, scared and silenced for about thirty minutes. I had to go find my friends. I had to talk. It was Michael who I talked to and we concluded that action would be best. He said he would confront him about it, while I stood there and confronted him too. I thought he had exitted when at that moment he walked right by and I look at Michael with big eyes (I think so) and say "That's him." He says are you sure? I said YES. Michael said he did not appreciate him feeling me up and I stood there terrified. This man was drunk and said "I did not do that!!" He blatantly lied. He lied. He lied. He lied. I was there I felt his hand on my boob. WHY was he lying??!! I was angry. I am angry. He pushed michael out of his way and when he swung at Michael, he nearly got my girlfriend in her temple ( I didn't learn this until after the fact ) We ran after him outside and as I yelled "Take a fucking hike you sexual predator", his girlfriend defended him. "HE'S DRUNK!" "HE'S DRUNK!" "HE WAS JUST TRYING TO GET BY!!" I incisively said "He was just trying to get by me, right?! Which is why once he felt my boob and I confronted him he went the OTHER direction, That doesn't make any sense!!" They receded around the house...I was so angered. "Where is Michael?" I thought. I went around the houses corner to the parking lot to find the meanest man getting into his car, the drivers seat. He was about to leave, nonetheless drunk. Michael was still confronting him, he turned on his car, he was about to pull out and michael was walking in front of his car trying to get him to go. I think he was going to get his license plate number, he turned on his car, "VRRRRRRRRROOOOM", revs his engine and JOLTS forward nearly hitting Michael, I'm throwing my cup(edited typo, "car" to cup; Mon. 4:46p.m. Feb. 14) at this guys car he was still wet after I bashed him in the back with a plastic cup full of beer. He parks the car, gets somewhat out, I started to approach him yelling at him to get the fuck out of here, to leave, Michael's yelling at him, my girlfriends coming around the corner, his brainwashed drone is yelling at him to get back into the car. Him and his buddies leave.
That's two threats in one week. I have never been more scared in my life. I am front out of state, I have no one close to me, family-wise. I am threatened. I am frightened. I am silenced. I am not ready to fight. I will not be threatened. I will not be frightened. I will not be silenced. I am going to fight back. Do not fuck with me. The name of the threatener will irk me and I will never forget the license plate number. This has all happened around the area of Carbondale. I would like to raise awareness about this type of institutional silencing, this prejudice and inequality. For whatever reason, both of these males felt the ability to overpower me in my action and voice. I'm not going to stand for it any longer, if you want to, fight back with me.